In the small village of Inniskeen on the Monaghan-Louth border, a family is clinging to the thinnest thread of hope while staring down a mountain of medical bills that could destroy them.
She was the sixth person in that doomed Volkswagen Golf. She was the only one who lived.
Twenty-two-year-old Aoife O’Rourke – bright, fiercely independent, and the beating heart of her family – is now fighting for a future that almost ended on a rain-soaked country road four nights ago. While Ireland still mourns Chloe McGee, Alan McCluskey, Dylan Commins, Shay Duffy and Chloe Hipson, Aoife’s parents have issued a desperate public appeal that has left the nation stunned: they need help – urgent, massive, and immediate help – to save their daughter from a lifetime of disability and to keep their home.

“Aoife is alive, but the price of staying alive is breaking us,” her mother Caroline O’Rourke told reporters through tears outside Our Lady of Lourdes Hospital in Drogheda this morning. “We were already living paycheck to paycheck. We have no idea how we will pay for what comes next. We are begging – literally begging – Ireland and anyone who can hear us to help us bring our girl all the way home.”
From Miracle to Nightmare: Aoife’s Injuries
Gardaí confirmed that none of the six occupants of the Volkswagen Golf were wearing seatbelts and the car was dangerously overloaded when it collided head-on with a Toyota Landcruiser on the L3168 at Gibstown at 9:12 p.m. on Saturday night. Five died instantly. Aoife, who had been sitting on a friend’s lap in the back seat, was thrown through the windscreen and then pinned beneath the crumpled roof as the car spun and rolled.
Surgeons have described her survival as “nothing short of astonishing.” What they did not call astonishing is the extent of the damage:
Severe traumatic brain injury (diffuse axonal injury grade III) with bleeding in the frontal and temporal lobes
Multiple spinal fractures (T6, T7 and L1) requiring emergency fusion and titanium rod placement
Crushed pelvis reconstructed with plates and screws in a nine-hour operation
Shattered right femur and tibia, now held together by external fixators
Ruptured spleen (removed in emergency surgery)
Collapsed lung and multiple broken ribs
Deep lacerations to the face and scalp requiring more than 200 stitches
Partial paralysis of the lower limbs – doctors say it is still too early to predict whether she will walk again
After four days on a ventilator in intensive care, Aoife opened her eyes for the first time yesterday and whispered a single word to her mother: “Mam.”
That moment gave the family hope. The €480,000 (and rising) hospital bill has taken it away again.
The Girl They All Called “Sunshine”
Before Saturday night, everyone in Inniskeen knew Aoife O’Rourke as the girl who never stopped moving.
The eldest of four children raised by a single mother who works double shifts as a care assistant and a father who drives a delivery van for a cash-and-carry, Aoife had fought her way to a first-class honours scholarship in Physiotherapy at University College Dublin. She paid her rent by working weekends as a lifeguard and coached the under-12 girls’ Gaelic football team in her spare time – the same team that stood in silence for her at training last night, pink ribbons tied around their arms.
“She always said, ‘If I can help one person stand again, everything will have been worth it,’” said her younger sister Sadhbh, 16. “Now she’s the one who might never stand.”
Friends remember Aoife as the one who organised fundraisers for the local hospice, who drove an elderly neighbour to chemotherapy every Tuesday, who saved a child from drowning at the swimming pool last summer and shrugged it off with, “Sure that’s just what you do.”
Now the girl who spent her life lifting others up cannot lift herself from a hospital bed.
A Family on the Edge
The O’Rourkes’ modest three-bedroom home on the outskirts of Inniskeen is already mortgaged to the hilt. Caroline took unpaid leave from work the moment she heard about the crash. Dad Patrick’s van is 14 years old and barely passed its last NCT. There is no private health insurance, no savings, no rich relatives.
The hospital has been extraordinarily compassionate, but the reality is brutal: specialist rehabilitation for spinal cord and brain injuries in Ireland is limited, and the best outcomes come from intensive, long-term therapy that the HSE cannot fully fund. Aoife’s neurosurgeon has already warned the family that three to six months at the National Rehabilitation Hospital in Dún Laoghaire will be followed by years of private physiotherapy, occupational therapy, neuropsychology, and possibly treatment abroad if lower-limb function does not return.
Estimated cost in the first 24 months alone: €750,000–€1.2 million.
The SOS That Shook Ireland
This morning, with the permission of the hospital, the family launched an online fundraiser titled “Bring Aoife All The Way Home.” Within six hours it had smashed through €200,000. By tonight it stands at €487,000 and is the fastest-growing GoFundMe campaign in Irish history.
Caroline O’Rourke’s raw, tear-streaked video appeal has been viewed more than eight million times:
“I am not ashamed to beg. I watched five beautiful young people leave this world in the blink of an eye, and my daughter was given a second chance that feels like a miracle and a punishment at the same time. If you ever met Aoife, you would know she would give every penny she owned to help someone else. Now we are the ones who need help. Please, if you can spare even five euro, help us give her the future those five angels were robbed of.”
A Nation Responds
From President Michael D. Higgins to Taylor Swift (who posted the link to her 280 million Instagram followers with the caption “Ireland, let’s do this for Aoife”), the response has been overwhelming.
The entire Dublin GAA senior football panel has pledged €50,000 and will wear Aoife’s name on their jerseys next season.
Ryanair CEO Michael O’Leary has offered free flights for any specialist flown in from abroad.
Local trad sessions across the country are donating tonight’s takings.
A group of Transition Year students in Carrickmacross, Aoife’s old school, has already raised €18,000 by standing at roundabouts with buckets.
Yet even as the donations flood in, Caroline O’Rourke remains terrified that it will not be enough.
“Aoife has a long, painful road ahead,” she said. “We will fight for every single step with her, but we cannot do it alone.”
Tonight, in a quiet ward overlooking the Boyne, a 22-year-old girl who spent her life being sunshine for others is breathing on her own for the first time since the crash.
Ireland has four days left to prove that sunshine can be returned.
To donate: www.gofundme.com/bring-aoife-home Reference: Aoife O’Rourke – Sole Survivor L3168 Gibstown Tragedy