Tess Crosley, the woman at the centre of the explosive marriage breakdown between Brisbane Lions co-captain Lachie Neale and his wife Jules, has been spotted on a mysterious outing with a beaming smile — noticeably without her husband Ben Crosley or her wedding ring — just days after Neale confirmed the end of his decade-long marriage.
The sighting, captured by paparazzi in a Brisbane café on January 4, shows Crosley laughing with friends, dressed casually in activewear and radiating confidence. The absence of her wedding band and Ben Crosley — who has not appeared publicly with her since the scandal broke in December — has fuelled intense speculation, with fans dubbing it “the smile of a winner.”
The timing is “unbelievable,” sources say, coming shortly after Neale’s tearful admission that he made an “unfixable mistake” and is “ready to move on.” Jules Neale’s earlier statement alleging “unimaginable betrayal” had pointed fingers at Crosley, a former close friend of the couple and married mother-of-one.
Old photos of the two couples — holidaying together, celebrating grand finals, even playfully biting Lachie’s premiership medal — resurfaced, painting a picture of shattered friendships. Jules’ deleted furious comment on Crosley’s Instagram — “Take these down, you idiot” — added fuel to the fire.
Crosley has maintained a defiant online presence throughout, posting cheerful Christmas content without Ben or her ring visible. The latest outing, described as “carefree” by onlookers, has divided opinion: some see it as tone-deaf amid Jules’ pain and the couple’s young children; others view it as reclaiming normalcy.
“No hubby, no ring — the message is clear,” one social media user wrote. Another added: “Tess is smiling like she won something. Unbelievable timing.”
Ben Crosley has not commented, and friends say the couple is “navigating privately.” Meanwhile, Jules remains in Western Australia with Piper and Freddie, focusing on healing.
The AFL community, already reeling from the high-profile split, watches as Crosley’s “winner’s smile” becomes the latest chapter in a saga blending heartbreak, betrayal, and public scrutiny. For a woman once part of the Neales’ inner circle, this mysterious outing feels like a bold statement — one that has left Australia talking.
As Lachie prepares for pre-season and Jules rebuilds, Tess Crosley’s carefree appearance raises the question: in this painful fallout, who really feels like the winner?