“It’s Affecting Her Every Single Day” – The Today Show Host Opens Up About the Emotional Family Struggle, Giving Fans a Glimpse into Their Private Battle

Heartbreaking revelation! Jenna Bush Hager, the bubbly 43-year-old co-host of NBC’s Today show and daughter of former President George W. Bush, has shared that her 11-year-old daughter Mila’s condition has deteriorated to the point where she must now live apart from her siblings, a decision that’s left the family in emotional turmoil. In a candid segment on Thursday’s fourth hour of Today, Jenna, fighting back tears alongside co-host Hoda Kotb, confessed, “It’s affecting her every single day,” pulling back the curtain on the private struggle that’s reshaped their home life. For all the shocking details, insider reactions, and heartfelt moments, the story has fans rallying with an outpouring of support, turning Jenna’s vulnerability into a beacon for families facing similar challenges.
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Mila Hager, Jenna’s eldest daughter with husband Henry Hager, was diagnosed with epilepsy at age 4, a condition that has required careful management through medication and lifestyle adjustments. But in recent months, the seizures have intensified, occurring multiple times weekly and disrupting her daily routine. “What started as occasional episodes has become a constant shadow,” Jenna explained, her voice cracking as she described the latest escalation. “We’ve had to make the heartbreaking call to have Mila stay with my parents in Texas for a few weeks – away from Poppy and Hal – so she can get specialized care at a facility there. It’s the right thing, but God, it’s hard.” The separation, temporary but necessary for intensive monitoring and therapy, means Mila, 11, is living apart from her sister Poppy (9) and brother Hal (6), a dynamic Jenna says is “ripping us all apart.”
Jenna and Henry’s journey with Mila’s epilepsy has been one of quiet resilience, shared in glimpses to destigmatize the condition. Jenna first opened up in 2022 on Today, revealing Mila’s first seizure at a family gathering: “She collapsed, and in those seconds, the world stopped.” Since then, the couple has advocated for epilepsy awareness through the Epilepsy Foundation, raising $250,000 via fundraisers. “Epilepsy doesn’t define Mila – she’s fierce, funny, a little artist,” Jenna said. “But the unpredictability? It’s terrifying.” Recent episodes, triggered by stress and sleep deprivation, have led to emergency ER visits, prompting the Texas relocation for access to advanced EEG monitoring and a pediatric neurologist team at Texas Children’s Hospital.
The family, based in New York, is no stranger to separation – Jenna’s Texas roots and Henry’s policy work often pull them apart – but this feels different. “Mila FaceTimed us last night, drawing pictures for Poppy and Hal,” Jenna shared, tears welling. “She’s brave beyond words, but hearing her say ‘I miss my room’ breaks me.” Henry, a finance executive, has been shuttling between coasts, while the siblings cope with “Mila care packages” of drawings and videos.
Fans have flooded social media with love. #MilaStrong trended with 1.2 million posts, supporters sharing: “Jenna, your family’s strength inspires us – epilepsy warriors unite!” Hoda Kotb posted: “My TV family is hurting – holding you all close.” The Epilepsy Foundation saw a 35% spike in helpline calls, with parents crediting Jenna’s honesty: “She made us feel less alone.”
Jenna’s openness, from her 2016 miscarriage to parenting twins, has defined her Today tenure. “We’re not superheroes – we’re just us, navigating the storm,” she said. As Mila’s treatment continues, the Hagers remind us: love bridges any distance, one FaceTime at a time.