Gwen Stefani is no stranger to being in the spotlight, but when it comes to her relationship with Blake Shelton, the Hollaback Girl singer keeps things delightfully down-to-earth. The Grammy Award-winning artist, who married Shelton in 2021, recently sat down with Drew Barrymore on The Drew Barrymore Show, where she opened up about her ideal date nights with the country music star, the best advice she’s received about marriage, and how the couple keeps their love life fresh.

A Cozy, Low-Key Date Night

In the interview, Stefani shared a glimpse into her and Shelton’s cozy home life, revealing that her ideal date night involves not much more than a couch, some snacks, and their beloved dogs. “I’m literally couch, blanket, chips,” she explained with a smile, describing how she unwinds after a busy day. “I just have the whole thing — the dogs down right there, and then we have two couches, and Blake’s on that couch, and we’re like, ‘Hi!’”

Her description of the couple’s at-home routine shows just how much they enjoy each other’s company in the comfort of their home, where things are far from glamorous, yet incredibly intimate. Despite the fact that Stefani and Shelton are both public figures with jet-set lifestyles, the couple’s preferred date nights are delightfully low-key.

Stefani also joked about the logistics of their couch situation, revealing that due to Shelton’s towering height, they often can’t sit on the same couch together. “I would sit next to him, but he’s gigantic, and we don’t fit anywhere,” she quipped, playfully highlighting their physical differences in a way that was relatable and humorous.

While some couples might prefer to go out for romantic dinners or enjoy lively outings, Stefani explained that the simple act of being at home and relaxing is what she enjoys most. “It’s the best thing,” she said, illustrating how small, quiet moments at home are her idea of a perfect evening with Shelton.

The Best Marriage Advice: A Third Party

When asked by Drew Barrymore about the best advice she had received since getting married to Shelton, Stefani surprised many with her thoughtful response. “Best advice would probably be make sure you have a third party,” she said, referring to the importance of faith in her marriage. “I would definitely say, make sure you have a third party,” she added, pointing upward, seemingly alluding to the role of God in their relationship.

Her comment suggested that having a spiritual connection is essential for sustaining a marriage. Stefani’s acknowledgment of the divine presence in her marriage is a testament to the couple’s deep faith and commitment, beyond just the two of them. The suggestion of a third party in the form of spiritual grounding speaks to the way the couple views their relationship as more than just a partnership; it’s a union supported by something much greater.

Many fans and viewers were touched by her candidness, as it revealed a more vulnerable side of Stefani. While she’s known for her bold and confident persona on stage, this insight into her personal life showed the thoughtful and reflective aspects of her personality.

Reflecting on Their Love Story

Stefani and Shelton’s love story is one for the ages. The couple met in 2014 while working together as coaches on The Voice. At the time, Stefani was married to Gavin Rossdale, and Shelton was still with Miranda Lambert. But as fate would have it, both Stefani and Shelton went through high-profile divorces in 2015, and by the end of that year, they had found solace in each other’s company.

Their relationship quickly blossomed, and the pair made it official by tying the knot in 2021. Stefani opened up about how their connection began as a friendship that grew deeper over time. “I think it’s pretty incredible how things happened for both of us. We met at a time when we were both going through difficult personal stuff,” she told Barrymore, reflecting on their journey together.

New Music, New Chapters

Despite the chaos of public life, Stefani and Shelton have continued to grow both personally and professionally. Stefani, who is known for her solo music career and her work with No Doubt, released a deluxe version of her Bouquet album last month. The deluxe edition includes a new track called “Still Gonna Love You,” which Stefani co-wrote with Finneas, Billie Eilish’s brother and frequent collaborator. In a statement about the song, Stefani described it as being about “love that can’t be broken,” a love that “no matter what is always going to be there, and a love that can always bring you back home.” The song’s release is another reflection of Stefani’s personal growth and the strong foundation she’s built with Shelton, with love being a central theme of her latest work.

Shelton, for his part, is also gearing up for his own musical release. He announced that his new album, For Recreational Use Only, will be dropping next month. One of the highlights of this new album is a duet with Stefani titled “Hangin’ On.” This collaboration is highly anticipated by fans of both artists, as it marks another professional milestone for the couple, whose careers have continued to thrive both individually and together.

A Love That Lasts

Though Stefani and Shelton’s love story has been widely covered in the media, it’s clear that the couple continues to prioritize their relationship above all else. Recently, Shelton shared a heartfelt post on Instagram for Valentine’s Day, where he posted a photo of himself embracing Stefani and captioned it, “Happy Valentine’s Day to my forever Valentine. I love you @gwenstefani!!!!!”

Their love is built on shared experiences, mutual respect, and a sense of humor that keeps their bond strong. From their quiet, cozy date nights to their public performances and collaborations, Stefani and Shelton’s relationship is an example of love and commitment in the face of life’s ups and downs.

As the couple continues to grow both personally and professionally, fans can look forward to hearing more about their love story, both in their music and in their public appearances. Whether they’re performing together on stage or sharing intimate moments behind the scenes, Stefani and Shelton’s relationship is one that continues to inspire and captivate audiences around the world.